C & M's Wedding
White Plains, NY$65/ seat
Welcome to Not a Wedding Crasher™
Real Weddings. Thoughtfully Shared.
Attend or host a wedding experience.
Thoughtfully simple. Carefully vetted.
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Couples Share Extra Seats
Couples create a wedding listing, open unused seats to thoughtfully selected guests, and set a contribution amount for attendance.
- 02
Guests Request to Attend
Guests browse weddings, choose celebrations that resonate with them, and request available seats.
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Hosts Approve. Guests Verify. Everyone Celebrates.
Hosts review requests and approve guests. Verified guests confirm their seats through the platform, then everyone enjoys an unforgettable celebration.
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Verified GuestIssued 05.2026
Why couples trust usNot strangers.
Not strangers.
Verified, intentional guests.
Identity verified, every time
Every guest completes a verification process before confirming a seat which includes a government ID and selfie match powered by Stripe Identity.
Couples approve every request
Read each guest's note, review their profile, and decide who joins your celebration. Every seat is approved by the couple directly.
Secure payments through Stripe
Payments are securely processed through Stripe and released after the event to help protect both couples and guests.
100%ID-verified guests
0Uninvited attendees
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